The 4am poster needs Advise

As I sit here insainly at 4 in the morning I realise im in need of ADVISE

Ive just read on a site about people actually using Entrecard, a debate over if people actually take the time to check out your site or if there just doing a drop and run, I personally do drop and run but do come across sites that catch my attention, The question is what catches you, is it dam good headline or is it some abstract link with flashing lights, for me generally a good headline does the trick or some fancy advert scroller etc,

A bit like the ten o'clock news catchy headline results in watching the endless amounts useless information inorder to see what that headline was all about, this is a hard one, but ive been sifting through my stats, and Ive come to realise from 730 droppins I have had 50ish clicks on my links which is frankly quite dissapointing considering im actually giving away money.

If there's anyone out there who would like to advise on improving my conversion rate please comment as this is an issue I wish to resolve immeditely.....FELLOW BLOGGER AFFILIATE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP :)

Question 1: What do I do to make people notice my links more.
Question 2: Why dont people want free money.
Question 3: Is there anyone out there who actually took up my $35 to $500 free challenge...If you dont know what I mean read my post